Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Dear Young people,
Such as kids and adolescents,
Please learn from me, the unwise I. Please, if you are being bullied, taken advantage of, or is going through abuse of some sort (various), please do not keep silent. Do not be like me, who was silent all along for 25(?) years, and later on do something drastically stupid as I did. Use your voice, sparingly. Do not use the last minute to whine and cry and burst completely or burn up. Please, learn how to know your feelings and emotions there and there. don't wait 25 years and figure you dont' know what to do with your emos. Use your voice. If you are being taken advantage of in anyway, unfairly, please.... fight back (in a peaceful way if possible.) Write journals of how you feel each day, for the sensitive ones. Know yourself well. If you need to, step back and take deep breaths. don't wait until last minute to burst into flames. Learn to be pro-active. Know your rights. Don't let people step on you all the time, and silent, and be an angry person in your adulthood (like what I've become.) Be proactive. Don't be a people pleaser, or else you will be so much more disappointed and more depressed. Know yourself.. what your strengths and weaknesses. Own them. Don't run away from problems. Own them. The more you run away from your problems, the more they will knock u out. Know when you are angry. Vent in a healthy way. Don't hold it in because it will explode. Pick up hobbies if necessary. Cry.. Don't hold those tears please. Learn to let go of your emotions in a healthy way. confide in people u trust. Don't share with every single person, or the lonelier you will become. Although this blog is a cathartic thing for me, and it's a helpful way for me.
My point is that don't hold your emotions and anger. If you feel happy, own it. You are allowed to be happy. Savor every moment of it. Don't feel guilty about feeling happy and joyful. Laugh if necessary. And take it easy. Even without making life more difficult on yourself, life is already difficult anyway. And smile. Say 1 nice thing to a person everyday. It will make your day. Mama Leeteuk is watching u.
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