like Kangin and Sungmin

how are we even related (I am not talking about Kangin and Sungmin right now; but it will be related to it later.) I am an only child. She is youngest of 7. She is a girly girl who loves pink. I am not a complete tomboy but I have a natural inclination to be one. And I hate pink, although I admit when my mom shops for me many years ago, I had a lot of pink clothes... which, hehe, I still have. I am rustic, she is refined. I relate very well to "Rose" from Titanic, although i am not rich. How are we even related? She is very closed up and very "careful." I am an open book and I'm like whatever. I go with the flow, she plans. How the heck are we related? How is she my mother? She is conservative to the point it could seem frustrating, I am a lot more liberal than she is. If she knew what I have an SJ fan page (self-made) then she would flip, which makes doing this more exciting and more thrilling. Like this, if a person forces you to become a certain way (for some reason, i was always in a context, family or church, where I was expected to be a certain way, thus why makes it more valid for me to be a SJ fan... since I felt like my interests were always limited and people just love to try to mold me to be a certain way) Literally I feel like a caged bird who has to sing. She grew up rich who's mother went to university in Japan, I grew up as a typical Korean American immigrants' child. Such irony. How are we so different, and she kept was pregnant with me for 9 months. We are different like night and day. That's even an understatement sometimes.No i am not saying my mom is Sungmin. Just wanted to demonstrate how different we are, as those two are so different (I watched this because I watched SJ version of Intimate Note with SM and KI), which says KI is a macho man and SM is a feminine boy (and not GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!). (to Kangin: In your individual picture, i really like your shirt and hat! Please come back to SJ!, so different w/o you!)